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IF YOU WATCH PORN, WATCH THE RIGHT ONE

Updated: Apr 24


One of the common conversations I have with my clients is about masturbation and self love.


What is the difference?


When we masturbate, the intention is (most often) to release tension, experience pleasure, and - to feel better.


Right?


When we practice self-love, however, we are trying to "give" our bodies some love and affection through physical touch, and - observe how it reacts.


In other words, when we practice self-love, we are not asking our bodies to perform in any way.


It might sound simple, but this shift in your mindset often makes all the difference - both for your own pleasure, and for your ability to connect with your partner.


Having visuals such as porn stimulate our "biggest sex organ" (=brain), in a way that is very goal (=orgasm) oriented.


So, we are building some tension, and - asking our body to release it.

Build up. Release. The cycle happens over and over again.

The problem is... this repetition trains our bodies.


And that's how, unfortunately, some men end up with PE (premature ejaculation) or ED (erectile disfunction) issues when it is time to actually be with a partner..


Your body starts expecting a quick release, or a very specific physical/visual stimulation, that is almost impossible, or not appropriate to recreate when you are with a real person.



Also..

Do you know that it takes approximately 20 minutes for a healthy female body to get fully physically aroused? Versus 5 seconds for a healthy young man? :)


Want to know why?

Most of female's organs responsible for pleasure are internal. And no, not just a vagina!

Have you ever seen a 3D model of a clitoris, full one, not just a tip?

Most of it goes deep into vulva, and consist of an erectile tissue.


That's why the Art of Tantric Yoni massage always starts with massaging a groin area first...


There's much more to the art of arousing a woman, and to expanding a men's pleasure of course. The point is - most porn is performance oriented and doesn't serve any purpose other than entertainment.


Ask me if you'd like to learn more about becoming a conscious lover!

Pleasure is healing 🙏



*DELICIOUS : affording great pleasure

*EXPANSION : the act or process of expanding : great extent of something spread out

#deliciousexpansion

#femininemasculinedance

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