DOORWAYS TO YOUR EROTIC SELF
Updated: May 19
One of the most common complaints I hear from couples is: my partner wants to have sex more/less than me!
They express it as:
“My/her libido is gone!”
“I do not feel like s/he cares about me anymore!”.
And, the big one: “I think something is wrong with me/them!”
One couple said they’ve tried everything to return her ability to enjoy sexual pleasure. When I asked them what exactly did they do, they looked surprised, as if I am asking something obvious. “Using some toys, vibrator, watching porn together… What else can we do?!”
Well, there is PLENTY else you can do.
Especially if you are willing to consider that nothing is “broken”, therefore there is nothing to “fix’ in the first place! 😊
Have you ever heard of Five Languages of Love?
It’s a simple and beautiful concept that therapists have been using for years. The idea is: we all have different preferable ways to give or receive love.
They are: Touch, Words, Acts of service, Quality time, and Gifts.
What many people don't know is - just like there are different ways of sharing love with your family and friends, there are different languages for EROTIC expression of love.
It’s called EROTIC BLUEPRINTS.
They are: ENERGETIC, SENSUAL, KINKY, SEXUAL, and SHAPESHIFTER
Do you know what is your “native” erotic language?
If you don’t, you might be in trouble 😊
Because what works for one type, can be a turn off for another!
Would you like to know more about it?
Watch "Love, Sex and Groop" on Netflix and do the 5 Erotic Blueprints quiz online!
Reach out to me with any questions!